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Buttons and Bows Stories

Buttons and Bows (B&B) is both an online boutique (store) and a series of stories. The owner of Buttons and Bows is a fictional character named "The Proprietress," but all the B&B tales are based on actual stories shared by women. If you would like to be kept up-to-date on the latest stories, please subscribe to the FREE Substack "Pass Along Songs." This page will also be updated each time a new story drops.

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Be sure to check out the boutique itself where you will find fashion and artwork based on the stories B&B is collecting and sharing. Here is the link

https://www.dreamingwideawake.org/buttonsandbows

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So let me ask you, what’s a smart, sassy, childless, cat lady - who wants to be both fashionable and comfortable (two words that aren’t usually compatible) supposed to wear to fundraisers, watch parties, rallies, and ZOOM calls?

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"What I want young women and girls to know is: You're powerful and your voice matters. You’re going to walk into many rooms in your life where you may be the only one who looks like you or who has had the experiences you’ve had. But remember, you're not alone. We're all in that room with you, applauding. So you use that voice and be strong.” - Kamala Harris

We're Not Going Back
Women Who Run With Wolves

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The Proprietress creating Childless Cat Ladies art
Childless Chicken Ladies

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“Pets are humanizing. They remind us we have an obligation and responsibility to preserve and nurture and care for all life,” ~ James Cromwell

The Proprietress here. I couldn’t resist writing about how animals have begun to have a positive impact on this election. It all started with comments by you know who in July. As a childless cat lady who is proud of her choice, I was deeply offended by those remarks.

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"What I want young women and girls to know is: You're powerful and your voice matters. You’re going to walk into many rooms in your life where you may be the only one who looks like you or who has had the experiences you’ve had. But remember, you're not alone. We're all in that room with you, applauding. So you use that voice and be strong.” - Kamala Harris

The Proprietress of Buttons and Bows
Seed of Possibility Part I

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“Some people are in such utter darkness that they will burn you just to see a light. Try not to take it personally.” - Kamand Kojouri

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Seed of Possibility Part II
Walking Into Freedom

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"Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured." - Mark Twain

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“What we decide to focus on not only informs our view of the world, but will also guide our path through it.” - Kristin Ohlson

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The Proprietress hosts a post-election day gathering to offer her community comfort and support, as well as a place to enjoy one another's company while sharing stories and ideas for how to be proactive advocates for democracy.

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At the gathering, the Proprietress talks about and shares her portrait of a Mother Tree. Mother Trees serve as central hubs in old growth forests. They nurture, protect, and facilitate communication between all the other trees via underground networks.

 

The Mother Tree portrait is available as:

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The Mother Tree Candle
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